Things to Consider Before Scattering Remains

Scattering a loved one’s cremated remains is a meaningful way to honor their memory and can be done in various ways. If you choose this option, it’s important to understand the process and consider special ideas that might be significant to you or your loved one.

1. Choose a meaningful location

Select a location that held special significance for your loved one, whether it’s their favorite park, beach, or a place of worship. Scatter gardens at cemeteries are increasingly popular, offering a dedicated and beautiful space for scattering ashes, providing a common place for reflection and remembrance.

2. Check local regulations

Be aware of local laws regarding scattering ashes. Scattering on private property requires the landowner’s permission, and public lands like parks or lakes may have specific restrictions or permit requirements. Always check the regulations beforehand.

3. Decide when to scatter the ashes

You can choose to scatter the ashes immediately after cremation or wait for a more suitable time, such as favorable weather conditions for a ceremony. Timing can impact the comfort and attendance of those involved.

4. Plan who will attend

Consider who you want to be present for the scattering. This can affect logistics, such as travel and expenses, and may also influence the timing of the event. Smaller gatherings often offer more flexibility in planning.

5. Choose a scattering method

There are various methods for scattering ashes, including by hand, using a scattering urn, or employing a professional service. Decide on a method that aligns with your comfort level and legal requirements. Ensure that the method complies with local laws, such as scattering at sea, which generally requires being at least three miles from shore.

Special ideas for scattering ashes

• Aerial scattering: Disperse ashes from an airplane over a favorite landscape or body of water.
• Water burial: Scatter ashes into the ocean from a boat or along the shoreline.
• Memorial reef: Incorporate ashes into an artificial reef to support marine life.
• Tree planting: Use ashes to nourish soil for planting a memorial tree.
• Firework memorial: Include ashes in fireworks for a spectacular tribute.
• Space burial: Launch a portion of ashes into space for a celestial memorial.
• Artistic memorialization: Blend ashes with paint or ink to create artwork.
• Memorial jewelry: Craft jewelry with a portion of ashes for a personal keepsake.

6. Plan a scattering ceremony

Plan a ceremony that reflects your loved one’s life and values. This could include reading meaningful passages, sharing stories, or creating a lasting tribute like planting a tree. The ceremony can be formal or casual, depending on your preferences.

7. Scatter the ashes

When scattering ashes, gently open the urn or scattering tube and hold it at an angle to allow natural dispersion. You might choose to scatter together or take turns, and always approach the process with respect and mindfulness.

8. Honor the deceased’s wishes

Respecting your loved one’s wishes is crucial. If scattering isn’t preferred, consider alternatives such as burying the ashes, keeping them in an urn, or interring them in a columbarium. Ensure that your choice is respectful and meaningful.

Throughout the planning process, adhere to legal requirements and focus on creating a meaningful tribute. This will help bring peace and solace as you honor the memory of your loved one.

If you or a loved one are trying to understand how to scatter ashes or looking for special ideas, reach out to our cremation experts at one of our funeral home or cemetery locations near you. Also consider planning your funeral in advance to lock in today’s prices and lift the burden from your loved ones.

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